Every time a thread like this pops up, I wonder if I am playing a different game than everyone else...

I have seen 1 rotten apple in the last 3 months! ONE! It was a tank btw.
I play as a healer and as a DPS, and never see the DPS or Healers be jerks to the tanks. And I also never see the tanks be jerks to others.
When people want a faster run, they just ask nicely, and the last time this happened, the tank nicely replied that he will try it, but he thinks he is undergeared for bigger pulls - pretty sure nobody would blame him if he were to die, and I was easily able to keep him alive anyways...

Also I really don't get people crying about STR tanks.
VIT is pretty much useless in the majority of content. It doesn't offer any sort of mitigation, nor does it heals make hit higher. It only gives the tanks more HP! That ONLY helps against burst damage! It doesn't matter whether a tank has 14k HP, or 20k HP, if you only heal them for 3k, if you are able to keep them up in VIT gear, you will also be able to keep them up in STR gear. And STR gear makes fights shorter = less danger.