Are people really making the issue that "their DPS isn't good enough" and I'm afraid the game will get too toxic

I think what people REALLY need to understand is that, you're not going to get bitched out for doing decent DPS, no one is asking you to parse at 1300, and the top min max possible. There are literally many people in this game who hit VERY low, the average acceptable DPS for 3.0 assuming you're properly geared, Is about 750 - 1200.

Give or take another 50 - 100 on bursts, certain fights, etc.

If you have someone who is parsing at 500 or below, Which is what you should have been hitting at the end of 2.55. That's an issue, we're level 60 now with new skill and gear that is alot more powerful.

When you have someone in T9 w/ 20% echo hit only 100 or someone in Ravana Ex only hit 400. That's a huge issue, because if they don't care about how they play, they shouldn't even be allowed near these fights wasting 7 other people's time. That's simply unfair.