So, topic title.

If I'm a melee dps, who needs to be close by to Ser Charibert, and I and the healer get chained together, who was standing right next to me when we got chained, who's at blame for not moving away in time which resulted in the death of myself?

I ask this because the healer (who was honestly doing a poor job) didn't even begin to move away and wallah, dead. Funny because up until that point with tethers I had no issue, it was only when being tethered with him.

He was an Astrologian too, so he at least has access to instant casting and thus had no real excuse for using the "I'm healing and casting takes time so I can't move" excuse.