Quote Originally Posted by Stormfur View Post
I don't think they're saying "accommodate me. Change your playstyle for me. etc."
That is right on point. First, I won't even think about doing a dungeon unless I'm confident I won't cause a party wipe. I try to read dungeon walk-thru's before I do them, but there is often a lot to remember when doing for the first time. Mostly, I do other things in the game and avoid dungeons altogether when possible. It's not anyone else's duty to keep me entertained, FFXIV offers plenty to do for the most part without having to run dungeons.

The point of this thread was to learn what others were doing to overcome their challenges. I apologize for wording my original post in such a way as to obfuscate my intent.