This is the end.

[Miste]

Attack him in what degree? People tend to hyperbole things in reaction to make it seem more than it really is. All we get was "I'm being crucified" It could've been a simple "why do you have ballad up" or "why the heck do you have ballad up". For all we know, it could've been the former. The problem is his reaction to it as well; Mind you, they even went further to why ballad was not needed and how it was hurting his dps, and most we got was.


And as a bard main, this is incredibly frustrating to me when you're trying to sing ballad to boost healer dps...when you specifically have another song that does just that without lowering your damage.

Like I said in my post I didn't say that is definitely how things went down. All I was pointing out was another possibility and that you really can't just assume someone is doing this "play how they want regardless of how it affects the party." Just because you know that Foe is better than Ballad for helping healers DPS doesn't mean everyone does. Also its possible some people don't share your opinion even though it is based in good fact.

Just reminding that people have to remember not everyone knows everything about this game or how things work. People will never know what others want unless they let them know. Also helping others by letting them know what is good goes way farther than yelling at them, name calling, shaming, kicking them out of groups etc.

Considering how defensive OP is getting even in his own topic likely he was not innocent and fueled the dispute in which he got kicked though. But my posts are more in general and the fact it does happen that players just immediately rage instead of talking to the other player calmly first and ask questions or make suggestions.