Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post
Who are you to decide or judge whether another player is doing things the best way, or playing to their max. Even if they aren't who are you to tell them so?
Playing a ballad that lowers your dps when the healer isn't even aching for MP for their dps is not doing things the best way. That's just all there is to it really.

And when someone is knowingly causing problems for the group and continuing to do so, refusing not to, people have a right to speak up though it should be done civilly. There are 3 other people in the group, one person causing the others issues and being unmoving is grounds for the three people to voice concerns.

Judging by the OP going on for a bit without saying anything, but drama being brought up anew, it sounds like he was continuing to play ballad even after the others making it clear they didn't want him to. And it wasn't benefiting the group.