Quote Originally Posted by Lantia View Post
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1)Yes, everyone should have fun. 3 people being held back on account of one person is not fun. If a battle is being extended because of poor DPS, then absolutely more healing is needed. If a 30 second encounter takes 50 seconds and I stop healing after 30 seconds, the tank is going to die.

2)I don't mind if dungeons take long. I don't mind wiping, in fact, I love coaching newbies through something they find challenging. I cleared a Sunken Temple of Qarn NM with less than 10 seconds on the clock. If everyone is trying their best it will get done.

3)I rarely give advice, due to the fact that it most often ends like the OP's case and falls on deaf ears. Like I said, it's your responsibility to know your role. I usually stay quiet and out-DPS them on healer, solely out of courtesy to the others that queued, but on a bad day I don't hesitate to drop if someone is willfully wasting my time. It's players like in the OP that care so little they'll even tell you straight up that bother me. Just try your best and we will get along fine.