Also they probably prefer to be preemptive about harassment. This game doesn't seem to have the same amount of GM involvement that other games have. Also with cross server groups it emboldens the jerks. If we believe that the anti tell system in place for dungeons is for harassment and not some weird server issue.

I kind of miss meters from other games. But also remember the shaming of the jerks in main cities to keep the jerks inline. A few complaints from them usually led to making them miserable instead.