I would expect the same for Nin actually in term of stat weights. Maybe Dervy will have some soon i hope.
In terms of dps and only based from what i have seen (my Nin is only 55 atm) Nin dps is higher then Monk atm.
To me the order and just in my opinion (again i have not levelled my mellee classes to 60 yet) is Drg>Nin>Monk for damage.
Others who have levelled them to 60 and raid would however know better.
But my god that lag is still very much annoying at times.