I did my final two 2.0 dungeons with my FC. They let me watch all the cutscenes, so I advice to you make a group of players who like you enough to bear you watching a 20 minutes + cutscenes. I have never skipped my own cutscenes, but I am upfront about it to the other players. They can move ahead without me while I am watching a cutscene or kick me out, their choice.

Duty Finder is random, neither your wish or theirs is the correct one. You need to make a compromise or simply deal with it. Part of it could be blamed on SE for giving the players the option to speedrun it, but part of me is very grateful for it. I always do the main scenario roulette for the tomes and experience and after doing it 100+ times, all that I want to do is go in and go out fast. Maybe this is a issue on my side, but alot of players agree with me, or else we would not have had players rushing it. That does not mean I want to speedrun everything. I want to speedrun, roulettes, dungeons that are easy for us and the group can handle big pulls and times where you are in a hurry or just want to get it over with.

Remember you too, have the power to decide your run, it willl take longer time to get this done, but you can always organize your own dungeon runs, just like how players did before we got the duty finder tools.