Paladin Problems :o !

[Eye_Gore]

Its your gear you need to upgrade all of it. This is usually the biggest issue when people are having trouble, assuming you are using all of your abilities. But looking at your Lodestone profile your gear is lacking for the current state of the game. Start farming poetics to get the iron works gear, assuming you have post 50 dungeons unlocked. You can get some better items off the MB if you have the money.

The problem is the high end gear is up to ilvl 210, and even with level synch you will have a tough time. Most people may have ilvl150 or higher gear and they are running roulettes so you may get paired with them making your job harder