As a bard main, I like to keep an eye on my own DPS via the parse - in case I need to fend off baseless accusations of being the lowest DPS. If my numbers are consistent with what I expect, I'm usually happy even if I am a bit lower than everyone else. If someone is performing more poorly than I am and they're a DRG or a MNK, I laugh it off generally because they need to git gud.

But I NEVER share my parse results outside of my FC's facebook group, and even that inadvertently caused some drama because we have a free company with four bards in it so we can do some serious apples to apples in 8 man content.