Quote Originally Posted by worldofneil View Post
Really recommend just checking to be sure! It might not be the language option at all, but it'd be good to actually eliminate that.

If you haven't already contacted SE I'd recommend doing that that too (these forums are only for player to help other players, they don't reply to threads here). An in game GM might be worth a try, although I suspect they'll probably redirect you to phone or email support, but can't hurt to try them first!
So I went and looked at past screencaps and then opened my game and looked at my duty finder. You were right! As @praysolace said My "J" was highlighted not my "E" the E had an underline which made me think it was the default option but apparently somewhere along the line (I have no idea when, i've been having issues since before March or maybe since I started game!) the J got selected. Thank you so much for this suggestion.

I'll do some queues tonight to verify this was the problem but the one I just tried (guildhest as healer) was instant queue and it wasn't even player in need!