My PLD and WAR are iLv123!? I only have issues in low-level dungeons (since folks like to still run ahead an pull even when I am holding 2 mobs). I can generally maintain control, but other than that, I'm usually golden, unless there's a higher tank there.

I DF'd T10 as PLD. There was a Lv60 WAR there (I was Lv50 PLD). Sadly, he would have to slow his dps because he would take hate even after I am bursting my abilities and he has no Defiance up nor using Butcher's Block. But when I'm paired with another tank that is under Lv55, it goes smooth.