Yeah to be honest we try to be nice about it... if someone applies and we don't know who they are and have questions then someone contacts them and tries to get to know them/hangs out/parties etc. You can't really judge someone off an app so you have to get to know them! But like I said, many of the people who apply are people who we have partied with or have friends/family in the shell already.
I know you weren't saying I was judging etc... I was just trying to show that every shell that asks for apps aren't bad people, or don't want to help, or don't treat people who get in nice. I really really love the people in my shell and enjoy being with them, we are a big family. Even now we are chatting on mumble, doing parties and helping, crafting and laughing at the conversation we are having while chatting. XD
It is a shame that you aren't on Mysidia, but I do wish you the best of luck on Besaid! I hope that you find a nice shell and enjoy the game! Best of luck and stay happy!!!
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