inb4 closed-minded elitist arguments
You see my join date? 2 months after ARR release. I have spent the majority of my game time practicing and mastering my skills to get better at the game. I would say I'm a good player; capable enough to run cutting-edge raids. But my skills has gotten me nowhere, because of one very minor reason:
I was late to the game, by 2 months.
Now before I get a comment like "well mayb its cuz ur bad", let me remind you that you're playing an mmorpg. It doesn't matter how awesome you are as a tank, if the rest of your party members do not deal with mechanics correctly you will not clear the content.
Hardcore groups in non-mmo games recruit using a tryout method. They test you first-hand to see if you're good, and if your performance is not to their standards you don't get in. But that's not how most groups in this game works. People don't even bother to test you. It pretty much boils down to "if you have not cleared X content, you can't get in, your skills be damned".
Well that's okay, I'll just find a newly forming group instead....
...except they are extremely hard to find, and most are unstable. Every one that I joined has fell apart after a maximum of 5 sessions. I think its safe to say, that most dedicated raiders in this game have managed to get on the bandwagon a while ago. And I'm not a leader, forming a group myself is beyond me.
The point is, if you missed the bandwagon, you'll never get on. R.I.P. my hopes for hardcore raiding.