My tolerance is 2. Two tries. I don't have that much time for playing lately, with people that just doesn't bother explaining, call me elitist but at the 2nd wipe I ragequit. (Trial roulette, dragon's neck and Chrysalis way too much... Luckily Steps of Faith is so nerfed I can just faceroll-DPS the things. )

Whenever I see a new player message, I take my bothering of telling them strat. If we wipe once. I take it as normal and tell them where the failure was and what happened, if we wipe 2, It's a lost cause and I just refuse myself to keep loosing time.

Honestly, wiping 15 times in the second boss of Aurum Vale and those things are not my way to enjoy FFXIV, sorry.