First every half hour there is a behest at the camp Sites. For you if you can get one or 2 more people to go would be Treespeak in Grid Across from Emerald moss. Also, do the leves. Do you have a LS? If you don't try and speak/PT with more people. Do the best you can and someone will invite you. I have been doing leves with my LS mates as a Con and using there R40+ leves. It's fun and we all have a great time. granted, my LS is out of the norma and we do a LOT of stuff together. It's social not HARDCORE ENDGGGAAAAMMMMMEEEE! We're all here to have fun so we do.
Also, reach out to the Lodestone folks. I have recruited about 10 people just from posting a quick link to our LS when I was invited. If you ask for one, you will get a lot of responses if your server is populated enough. I see people request LSs all the time here.

Good luck!