I get that you're feeling threatened and that you don't like it when someone berates you but rather than immediately lashing out and saying they need to change shouldn't you look inward? If a teacher says, hey you're not doing well on these exams that more than half the class is gettin over 100% on would you tell him his test is wrong or would you study more? It's sad that players would rather they find a way to continue playing at a low skill level then to just practice their class a bit and avoid that kind of harrassment by virtue of their own skill.