I like to do bigger pulls as a tank, but I'll slow down if the healer can't handle it. If the DPS decides to pull on their own though I won't help them. If you want to go faster than say something.

As a DPS or Healer, I don't mind if a tank does smaller pulls even if they're geared. What bothers me is if they stand around for no reason before a boss for a solid 15-30 seconds. The one pull I won't do is that whole hallway after the first boss in Fractal, the one with the three mobs that have AoEs that need to be interrupted. That pull is a pain in that ass to me in DF.