While I understand that some people want to take time and travel through things slowly, you simply can't expect this from Duty Finder. If you want slow, gather a few similarly leveled people and run it until you learn the ropes.

Or join an FC that's willing to train you and help you through the steps. Most people who use Duty Finder have already run those dungeons before, and when you're leveling your second or third job, you just want to be done with it. Course, I'm the type that feels like he's pulling teeth when running dungeons so..