I have in the past got commendations from people for saving the group from a complete wipe or for being very playful with people in the party

A word to the OP

"Just doing your job" in my book will net you a 1 in 3 or 1 in 7 chance of getting a commendation from me.

What would improves your chances in my book are:-

- having a nice sexy glamor on. (Bunny and Thavnairian Bustier set are your best bets atm)
- being a target of my playfulness.
(Lalafell, Roegadyn and male characters will not qualify for the above 2 points)
-helping me prevent a party wipe
-letting me be trigger happy with Fire IV and Blizzard IV (sadly this rules out SR pulls)