Why are bards / Mechanists so... Sensitive? <_<

[Eidolon]

So, leveling 50-60, you'll notice a very common reoccurring theme within Bards and Mechanists.

If you say even one seemingly negative thing about them, they will either throw the biggest *****fit ever, or they'll leave the duty outright.

Case in point? Today twice while spamming Library on Dragoon, I got two bards on two seperate runs. I enter in and say "Ew Bard" as a joke, and they leave the duty instantly. Not that it matters much - the spot fills instantly - but are people really so sensitive about Bard right now that they'd rather eat a 30 minute cooldown instead of just doing the run? XD Mind you, these are all 59 Bards.

I come from a job that is literally ridiculed no matter how well you do, and anyone who talks bad about Dragoons will just say "It's just a joke." So while I disagree with the joke, I've never ragequit from a dungoun or treated people badly for it.

Mechanists react exactly the same. Is a little playful teasing too much for ranged DPS? XD

[Vespar]

As a bard, "Ew Bard" is like adding fuel to the fire right now because we are in need of serious fixes. Machinist is likely no different.
So I can understand their wish to not deal with the drama, even if it was intended as a joke.

Coming from a job that was once ridiculed, you'd think you'd be a little more understanding on the matter.

[AskaRay]

They must not have been desperate for EXP if they left instantly.

I have a friend who constantly calls me a Spoony Bard but it's like...whatever at this point.
Some people in general act like this. I've made tons of DRG jokes and every once in a while someone will get mad.

[Mhikail]

I would, if you're being a jerk. They can't tell if you're joking or not...Because they know they are in a tight spot right now and saying crap like that gets to people.
MCH is in a horrible spot right now. They probably don't wanna feel like a burden or have a bad time with negative attitudes. Sooo...yea.
If people say "EW AST" to me, I'd feel awful.
Lord let them be saved.

[Vespar]

They must not have been desperate for EXP if they left instantly.

I have a friend who constantly calls me a Spoony Bard but it's like...whatever at this point.
Some people in general act like this. I've made tons of DRG jokes and every once in a while someone will get mad.

Spoony Bard isnt really that bad, it's a quote from another FF game and most bards view it favorably.

[AskaRay]

Spoony Bard isnt really that bad, it was something said in another FF game and most bards view it favorably .

I know, I played most of FFIV.

I mean I have had friends say worse, but it was before the expansion. Annnnd yeah about the tight spot... really probably shouldn't make any kind of comment to non-friends/acquaintances right now. It's true that they might not know you are joking.

Still think they couldn't've wanted the exp that bad if they left though... I've stayed through terrible parties because I didn't want to queue up again. Silly queues.

[Spawnie]

every class has certain people its like walking on eggshells around.. most sensitive ive come across is tanks...

for example yesterday got a first time tank after 2 wipes on final boss i suggested he stand off to the side so less tentacles hit him and its less draining on the heals.. talk about the sh*t storm he threw at me about hes a tank all he has to do is stand there its the healers fault hes dieing blah blah blah.. 3 wipes later he took my advice n we finished the run.. healer goes see what happens when u listen to advice of those that have ran the dungeon b4?? then another abusive sh*t storm started from the tank this time targettin the heals lmao

[Zfz]

Just grow up and stop poking fun at strangers. They may have had a bad day and this just shows your lack of social skills. Jokes are fine, but jokes that poke fun at people or their attributes are best left to your personal friends.

Those that have never, ever been offended by anything anyone said in their whole lives, may continue to poke fun at strangers. And you shall realize how stupid you sound now soon.

[Lewtskie]

I would, if you're being a jerk. They can't tell if you're joking or not...Because they know they are in a tight spot right now and saying crap like that gets to people.
MCH is in a horrible spot right now. They probably don't wanna feel like a burden or have a bad time with negative attitudes. Sooo...yea.

As a bard, "Ew Bard" is like adding fuel to the fire right now because we are in need of serious fixes. Machinist is likely no different.
So I can understand their wish to not deal with the drama, even if it was intended as a joke.

These two pretty much nailed it. There's no way of taking "Ew Bard" as sarcastic or 'just a joke' when you're just some random they stuck in with. How exactly are they to know that they weren't in for a veritable shit storm of berating?

Gonna crack jokes like these gotta be smarter about it. Use better phrasing, put a :V or <kappa> next to or following it. Something that isn't so flat.

[Arrik]

I would, if you're being a jerk. They can't tell if you're joking or not...Because they know they are in a tight spot right now and saying crap like that gets to people.
MCH is in a horrible spot right now. They probably don't wanna feel like a burden or have a bad time with negative attitudes. Sooo...yea.
If people say "EW AST" to me, I'd feel awful.
Lord let them be saved.

This.

@OP It's not so much that you said one lousy joke (if you were joking, hard to tell online), it's more I don't want to hear it the whole dungeon, or get kicked halfway through the run because we fail once for whatever reason. It's like the Aery run I had the other day on MCH, BLM was red-dotting all over the place but it was somehow my fault the dps was low. When the blm finally dc'ed, the tank vote kicked him and left. That's my time wasted....