Getting refused to EX groups as a DRK

[Xariann]

Getting refused to get into group with bismarck EX is getting annoying due to me being a DRK.

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I hear you. Warrior was like that in 2.0. I used to have a hard time getting into Titan groups because "You can't tank as well as a Paladin and you can't do as much damage as another DPS." Nevermind that it is still entirely possible to do the raids and content with the "less optimal" classes. Now the tides have turned and while I am quite happy that my main class is where it is, I still find the whole meta gaming gets taken way too far. It is not about fun, it's about being greedy about loot. And of course I like loot, but the focus of the game needs to be fun with a character you like to play.