
Originally Posted by
BruceyBruceyBangBang
You two are just reading into what people have been saying regarding that. I can only speak for myself, but when I address your nostalgia goggles, it's never in regards to systems like these.
I'm not speaking to you directly but the mere act of saying I enjoyed XI for ____ Reason gets people frothing at the mouth and saying the only reason I enjoyed it was because it was several years ago I did ____. Totally missing the point of why ____ system or scenario could be a good thing.
Lets say, the big travel debate for instance,
I can say that I enjoyed walking in XI because it was rewarding when you got somewhere and I feel that Anima cheapens that reward, sure I can still walk but it doesn't have the same impact or reward because it was a fruitless endeavor.
I am not better for the experience and I've just wasted time I needn't have wasted due to the options the game presents me with. I want a system where travel is rewarding and I feel restricting the use of Anima is key to that.
First couple of replies I will see are, Thats not how this game works! FFXI travel was terrible! Take of your nostalgia goggles and look at it my way! Agree with me!
Many people who are for/against certain systems in the game have a habbit of not actually explaining why they feel these ways, it's the basics of human phsychology to assume people will agree with us without much reason behind it. Our brains are stuck in Alpha mode when we get passionate about something and never have the foresight to back up our claims.
Likewise when disagreeing with something people flip to Alpha mode and get defensive about such a claim of a system that is not their ideal system. The lack of being able to convey passion, context, sarcasm, emotion in general over the internet compounds this situation ten fold.
All I ask is when I don't agree with something somebody doesn't assume I'm not being objective and looking at it outside my past experience. I still think Travel in XI was rewarding, I still think NM's were a fun pastime for me, I still think gear that doesn't out-date is a good idea, I still think HNM's sucked balls so I never participated, and I still think Time-sinks are great to have if used properly *Yes I say travel is a good use of a time-sink*
When someone doesn't agree with me and gives me their reason thats great, I'll do me best to counter there points and vice-versa. People also tend to get upset at this stage when they find out that I am of a different opinion of them and I wont be swayed by their justification or reasons. They think it as being Stonewalled when infact it's me listening but not agreeing, can't fault someone for that.
Blaming someone for something like having nostalgia goggles is a bold and I think rude claim, I don't tell people "You didn't experience it so you can't comment on it".
...I'll continue this later long story short.
I at least am not looking through "Nostalgia goggles" I am just stating what I found enjoyable and what I think others would enjoy in the long run, even if it incurs some short term pain.
No pain no gain!
Investment vs Reward.