Well I am marrying my husband, I never thought the Bonus items would be downgraded as well.

So I decided to contact NA support chat to see if they will refund his gold wristlet so I can redo the quest once it completes on the 11th. they basically were completely useless, their words were "You got married we can't refund" I haven't exactly finished the quest yet, so he is wrong about that, anyway....

I cannot abandon the quest either because there is no abandon button for it. So after the lack of support or even wanting to understand the issue, I am trying my luck with ingame GM to see if they can abandon our Ties that Bind quest, and I can get a gold wrist then go through the quest again with 2 gold wrists.

Hopefully they can do this...

Yoshida please, do something about this, at least allow us to Abandon the quest so we can try to fix the mismatch issue ourselves, rather than be forced to go through with the ceremony and get nothing from the paid packs. Though I still think that people should be able to receive their Bonus items no matter what their partner is using, the quest NPC should check on the person wristlet, and give the items accordingly to the wrist they are wearing.