Quote Originally Posted by Rajeme View Post
You don't need to be rude to find like-minded people. You don't need to be friends to be nice to others. Actually it doesn't cost them anything to change the attitude. Do they speak that way with their parents/friends/colleagues/ strangers? I doubt. If not, why brings it online?

And also, be nice will get people join them faster, and with gratitudes.
Yeah, can you imagine if someone just made wild generalizations about large groups of people, saying things like "If I was their boss, they sure as hell will get their asses-kicked." or "If they have brain, they could make their party much more comfortable and others much more pleasant"? I mean why couldn't they just make their case without becoming aggressive, just like you're asking?

Let's be real, people are people. Courtesy is good and all, but condemning people for not being courteous (not even discourtesy really since they aren't being openly rude, just not being actively courteous) is just gonna make you bitter and defensive. And eventually you'll have found a reason to hate everyone.