Endgame toxicity

[LTEvil]

I haven't read all the responses so I'm just stating my opinion. Please leave your emotions at the door if you get offended.
First jp is isolationist culture in real life. However that is not everyone in jp stop holding everyone to your few encounters.
Second I'm guilty of this "toxic " attitude. I very often display rules For my farm before going in. I always use two strike = blacklist. I do this because I'm very busy and on call sometimes. I do not have the luxury to spend time teaching or helping people. Especially when if you teach they say things like "it's just a game". Yes it's a game. So that's your excuse for being subpar and not trying your best? That disgusts me. Then the other one "I play how I want ". That's fine but your way sucks. Its math. I needs x dps to clear. You are weakest dps. Its not personal.
I've notice people make it personal though. They get mad if you tell them what they do wrong. Being nice and sweet to everyone does not get things done in efficient time. Not only that but being nice just makes people assume you are for giving to slacking. Its a waste of time in content that requires good effort. I'm not saying be mean. But be blunt and direct.
I always hear people complaining they can't get this content done or that. Or their fc no help. Leave useless fc? Stop playing with people who think being lazy is fun? That's just how I feel. Sorry for anyone I upset.