I personally save my extra side quests to help level other jobs when i can. Not every class can solo fates and because of how insane the hunting is there's no reason to grind fates and often no one around to help you. Fate parties are becoming extinct replaced by hunt parties.

Hunt parties are usually full of angry internet warriors complaining about what everyone else is doing wrong. its literally unpleasant experience for the most part to have to focus so much time around one random thing where its always complaining, and harassment, and someone is always screwing someone else over. I complain about this but i have no real solution for it and my only thoughts where what if we could make a Tiered raid somehow with Squads or wings displayed smaller of course maybe something similar to how Tera or other games do larger raid frames and party frames so can have a larger group and if your not in that group then you get no credit at all period.