I don't even understand how what you said relates to my post but I'll try to clarify in case there was some misunderstanding. Harassment by people who use parsers or any other addons/mods for that matter is hugely exaggerated. I'd argue harassment in general doesn't happen very often at all it's just that you simply remember those few times that you were harassed more than the times when you weren't.

I'd also like to say that the WoW community is actually very much the same as this community as much as some of you would like to believe otherwise. This is because all these communities are made of people and people will behave like people no matter where you go. There are always a few jerks but most people just want to get things done without any drama.