I am infuriated and in tears, about to quit again

[SovereignAegis]

I have returned from over a year long hiatus and I am trying to bum rush decent gear for my characters. One of them will be a machinist.

So I have been mercilessly farming WOD trying to get gear.

However I just had a match where I solo healed through most of the dungeon and then someone joined when the boss was at 10% health and they greed rolled me for it and they got it over me. The chest piece I've been farming nonstop for.

They didn't even put ina single heal.

I am so frustrated, if it was someone that contributed or even killed the trash mobs I'd be oaky but this... I am just so fucking sad about it.

Idk what to do. I want to get good gear for my machinist.

To top it off and ass insult to injury he also rolled for another main piece after the final boss. Yes really.


EDIT: ALLOW ME TO CLARIFY BECAUSE PEOPLE SEEM TO HAVE MISREAD

I don't care about RNG, I grinded ATMA fates when it was just released and so don't tell me I don't know RNG or grinding.

My issue is the fact that someone who did NOTHING AT ALL WHATSOEVER to help defeat a boss stole from the entire group a very very precious item. That is not acceptable. 23 other people worked to achieve something and someone waltzes in at the very end and runs off with the reward.

There should be a solid mechanic hard coded into the game that prevents such horrific abuse/problems. Because this is a problem, despite the many incredibly toxic posts (Came from League of legends?) personally attacking my person.

It isn't fair or right that someone who did nothing to help gets to walk away with the valuable loot obtained from the hard work of 23 other people. It isn't fair and it isn't right and no amount of insults you hurl at me will make it right. We don't work for free where I live.