What's up with the defeatist attitude ?

[Songi]

Declaring people incompetent does indeed indicate an elitist attitude. It does not however, indicate that you're wrong. It does indicate that you're probably not very fun to play with. Still, not incorrect.

Gotta call a spade a spade. Some people don't find it fun to carry those who are creating problems for the rest of the party by under-performing or failing to complete certain mechanics. I may have a lot more time to play than a lot of people but I still won't tolerate having to wipe over and over with someone who isn't able to learn or putting forth an effort to do so.