The abuse has led me and my friends in my FC to dub the asshole tank mentality "Diva Tank". All of us have a tank at level 50. We each have it geared for almost all content currently available, and we each have suffered through the horrors of DF shlubs. Each of us have gotten to the point where if someone tries to dictate what we do, we say: "Screw that noise, I do what I want. I'm the Tank, and I have faster queue times than you. You can leave if you want, I really don't care".

It's usually aimed at DPS who insist that the tank pulls their way, when it's honestly not up to us whether we speedrun or not. We have to keep our healers in mind. If the healer is okay with it, and can keep up with the damage, then we're all for it. If they're not, or one of the DPS isn't doing AoE's, then we don't, no matter how pissy the DerPS get.