As a PLD I haven't got a lot of "Abuse" cept for times I did F up (Lack of skill/knowladge of dungeon) I have gotten a few from over-geared DPS playing the "Take Hate from the Tank" game but since I do mark at lest 1 target (usually a AoE or ranged Mob) I just blow it off. I can say I few a bit bad from a run I did once a few weeks ago as a BRD (110 weapon, total ilv115) gave my PLD a bit of shit for saying something about BRD AoE spaming failing us, when I've done that with his gear & haven't lost arrgo that bad, might lose them for a second but I get it right back (DPS check of Amtor Keep HM Big stature with slimes phase lost them to us didn't want them back, he had the 110 Relic & lots of 130 gear... can't speek for other BRD didn't check them)... so yah I feal bad about that & try not to be as "mean" as a DPS anymore if I even ever talk. don't say anything unless I need to even as a Tank.