I must have some amazing luck. I believe everyone about being treated poorly and whatnot, but it's just never been my experience. I've had 2 healers rage quit for being unable to heal me, even though nobody even blamed them for it. The first time I thought it might be my fault, but the replacement was a lesser geared healer who did a much better job, so I suppose it was just one of those odd cases of a bad player getting mad at others for their own incompetence.

Usually the DPS players are between fine and great. Every now and then I get thrown for a loop when both DPS have 5k+ hp but mobs stay alive way too long and I realize that they're just terrible but usually you can tell how things will go right away.

I may even be inclined to play WAR more full time given the experiences that I've had. It's a lot less auto-pilot than the DPS I'm used to, which can be good or bad, but it's nice rolling in commendations and not searching for things to do during the long downtime.