I like to have my dots/nukes tied to embrace since I prefer if my fairy already has the heal going before the tank gets hit.

/micon "Bio II"
/ac "Bio II" <t>
/pac "Embrace" <focus>

Where I focus the tank, same basic thing for bio/miasma/aero/ruin/ruin2.

If anyone else gets hit either drop cleric and heal them if its big damage or just back off dps for a second until fairy starts healing them, or target them and force an embrace.