Hey Orbital-Dragon,

I'd give Lion's Den a shot. They are typically very social and chill. While they do have some folks that like to raid/grind-out-for-gear, most of the folks are in it for the social aspect of the game. If you'd like to talk to some of the more senior members hit up:
Jenna Belle
Lucy Heartfillia'
Nordvrede Himmelbrann

You can tell 'em Tristan sent ya. Cheers bud.