How in Hate do you folks keep track of dispels?

The buff/debuff icons are so bloody small and I can't tell what's what, even with my glasses on.

This isn't a problem in the other games I play because I can mod the UI.. And the party frames in this game just suck.

Http:\\imgur.com\C3NCABJ

My EQ2 interface. Frames at bottom center. The little cross icons light up when there's something that needs cured. One cross per type.

Http:\\imgur.com\8c6n1wa

My WoW UI.

I don't look at party frames on the side at all. Those 5 boxes(scales up to 25, 5x5 grid) is Grid, a party/raid frame replacement. Rest of the UI is Shadowed Unit Frames.

Party members' frames change color when afflicted by something needing dispelled. Green poison, brown disease, blue magic, purple curse. The border of the little boxes changes as well to those colors. I see *immediately* what needs dispelled. No guessing no squinting.

So why do they suck here?