Cactaur is a pretty good server. I transferred here from Excalibur about a year ago and I'm certainly glad I did. The population seems to have a nice middle ground; it's definitely active enough that there's always something going on in the party finder (especially during the evenings) but it's not so saturated that you get "lost in the crowd" so to speak.

If you do consider Cactaur and you're looking for an FC to join, we'd be thrilled if you'd check out Arun's Gate. We're a smaller FC building our community for 3.0 and beyond with a focus on community and progression. If you're interested you're encouraged to check out our website here . Alternatively I can be contacted via email at scobill@arunsgate.net or in-game (William Scobill).

I wish you the best of luck in your search for a new home!