So ran copper hm, haukke hm, phaeros today for first time and all 3 of those the tank just imediately went and pulled a bunch of mobs.

Since its my first time doing these and i'm healing, had a few wipes trying to keep the tank alive during those. Plus once i even lost were everyone ran, so they died

During pharoes the fight with a bird and these eggs. Well that one went good untill he started massive aoe damaging peaple and the tank died on me. Afterwords the tank made a comment "I know your new, but you suck"

Ended up finishing those 3 dungeons though at least

I'm getting a very bad vibe from the endgame comunity here, do most peaple just ignore if someones new to end game at this point?