To me, some of your points are rather...pointless. Wanting particular skills "back" in the game does not mean that those skills have not been planned for other classes already. Not every mage class needs to cast sneak/invis. A mini map that shows mob level and agro potential without ever having to see the mob is ridiculous too. It may make your life simple, but in no way shape, form, or fashion should someone be wasting their time on it instead of fixing many of the other things you pointed out.
Letting us get on the ferry when it arrives is something that may work for you, but I prefer being able to approach the dock and then go get a drink. as opposed to having to sit and wait for the ferry or going and getting the drink and potentially missing said ferry.
Not taking up inventory space for your gear is rather insubstantial also. Think about it--you are carrying around what? 100 items already? If they made gear that did not affect inventory, the same people would still complain about space.

Amd finally, in whatever category you choose, PvP should NEVER take precedence over PvE content-not in FF. While Porsches are very nice cars, not every car has to be a Porsche and not everyone thinks the Porsche is best. If a Porsche is what suits you, drive a Porsche but please don't come around my Lamborghini and try to turn it into a Porsche. Same goes for WoW. If you want PvP over PvE content, then go play WoW. Those of us that prefer PVE would like to have at least one game not ruined by the constant "balancing" of classes that PvP whiners bring with them.