lol DPS just cannot catch a break sometimes
If a DPS puts out too much DPS and takes hate they get moaned at and if they don't put out enough DPS they get moaned at,
You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't lol
But I suppose, a good DPS would be able to see a Tank having problems and pulling back a little, or when a Healer is having difficulties and pulling back when it is needed.
I play all classes so can see this from all sides