Please be more understanding of your fellow player

[Crysten]

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I think the above is a great example of an argument for both sides.

On the one hand, what a lot of people don't factor into things is that a lot of rage quits actually come out of frustration due to inability to learn. In the above case, this player got hit twice with the same mechanics. To a lot of people, that is going to be annoying (ie: you've seen it once, why did you miss it the second time?). Yes, some people learn slower than others, but at the same time, no research was done beforehand and no questions were asked, so people are going to assume that you vaguely know what you're doing.

On the other hand, it's clear this player is willing to learn from their mistakes, and that is something I greatly respect. In this case, the party shouldn't have been so quick to antagonize and should have honestly stopped for two seconds to explain where things went wrong. Garuda Hard mode's strat pre-speedrun can be boiled down to "hide behind pillars when she teleports, stick together after Aerial Blast, kill the sisters, kill purple feathers" so there's literally no reason not to.

Unfortunately though, for far more mechanic heavy fights (read: Titan/Coil) people should honestly be more open to guides if they aren't in a specific practice/DF group.