Wow, some of you have some real power-abuse problems. Just because we're tanks doesn't give us the right to act like jerks.

So what if a DPS pulls more? Do your friggin job as tank and pick them up. If the DPS pulled too many, then everyone will die sure, and the DPS with either have learned their lesson or left because they are too impatient. Either way it's a win-win for the tank (DPS are a dime-a-dozen to replace). But it's no more wasted time than having to wait to res the dead DPS (and possibly healer and other DPS if they helped) that pulled.

Is it slightly annoying? Sure, it can be. But you letting them die and having the attitude of "Me big leader, me Tank. You dumb DPS" is just as annoying if not moreso. And it gives the rest of us a bad name and makes us appear like arrogant pricks.

Suck it up, sunshine.