I apologize if this is in the wrong forum.

My character profile: http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodest...acter/3109222/

So, I have been playing since the closed beta. I have had an active subscription the entire time (except for one month, I was busy and forgot to renew). I have my main Drg lvl50/ilvl90, and every other DOW/DOM to lvl30 and working on the other DOH/DOL. I have been trying to get caught up on my relic/zodiac weapon but have been running into lots of problems. I am on the Sargatanas server and it was great for a while. I have noticed that it is getting a lot more difficult to find a party via the duty finder, I end up waiting 30+ minutes most times.

Trying to do the Atma books is near impossible since there are practically no new players and a lot of the dungeons are low level. I like my FC but it is not very active, and none of the FC's I have been in have been active. I think the "leader" of my current FC has not logged in in nearly 7 months? There are so many things I need to complete but trying to do them is practically impossible since everyone in Sargatanas seems to be just running T12 or just standing around Mor Dhona staring at each other. I have only ever finished through T2, that was when they were new and trying to get a party was impossible if you didn't have the current max ilvl equipment.

I still need to complete the ex-primals, and so many things that I just can't do because no one else is doing them and they can't be soloed.

So, my question is, what server is active with a good mix of levels, people actually running dungeons other than Coil T12, you don't wait a week to get a party via the duty finder, and FC's are active and willing to help members. I am definitely a casual player, but I want to do the end game stuff, I just can't commit to a static party that meets every day/week/month at a specific time. I usually log in during the late evenings and only for an hour or two, that is all I have time for.

If anyone in Sargatanas has any suggestions, I would appreciate it. I don't want to change servers to be able to play the game if I don't have to. Right now it seems that if I am going to get anywhere I need to find a more populated and active server.

I am open to any and all suggestions.