Is there some unspoken rule to not use Esuna/Leech?

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That's not really fair. While a healer might choose not to do it, oftentimes they are making multiple choices at once and your paralysis is low priority.

Healer choices often look like:

1. Keep the tank up.
2. Keep the dps who is at 10% life up.
3. Avoid one shot AOE.
4. Get rid of your non-lethal status debuff

You better believe that your debuff is not going to be dispelled until the very end, if at all....

^ This X1000 Asking me to remove your debuff RIGHT NOAH!!!11 is 9 times out of ten the same as asking me to let someone die so I can debuff you. So no. Some of you tanks and dps don't realize just how insanely fast your hp drops sometimes and asking me to do anything other than what is needed to just keep you alive is asinine. Maybe when people learn not to stand in fire and ALWAYS have the same tired excuses of lag, slow internet, my cat jumped on my keyboard ect...as to why they didnt move in time so now i have to throw everything i have at them to keep them up..maybe then ill have time to leeche.