Is there some unspoken rule to not use Esuna/Leech?

[Tiggy]

I guess as long as the enemies are dying and the party is not, what's the difference?

Blatant willful ignorance because reasons.

It's not acceptable to force people to play poorly because the healer is being lazy. For example paralysis to a blm immediately ruins their damage. Failing to remove it literally forces them to do poorly in both damage and dodging mechanics. It's unacceptable to force the effects of lazy play on others.