This has been brought up many many times. It's not going to happen with a glamor system in place. A lot of people get the gear for glamor purposes. The only thing you can really do about it, is kindly ask for the roll stating that it would be a nice upgrade and hope the other person is cool with it. I know I usually pass if someone asks me to unless I absolutely need it but yeah sorry, never going to happen. I opened a thread similar to this a year ago: http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...e-Gear-Weapons and the responses were.. well not in my favor.