Here's a suggestion you can try if you want:

1) Make a few learning parties for T9 and look at who joins
2) Take note of the ones who want to learn and the ones who rage quit
3) Add the ones who you mesh well with to your friendlist
4) Practice the fight with the people you mesh well with

Once you find a group of people you can depend on, learning the fight should be much easier and you'll get your clear.

Good luck!