No one wants to shamed, even if they might deserve it. I believe facts are good, I like transparency. In other games with meters people used to ask for my advice and help, because I was consistently a top performer. Other guilds invited me to their raids as guest and allowed me loot. When I first began raiding seeing myself at the bottom was my motivation to succeed. The key to improving at anything is keeping score. Over time I grew to really enjoy analyzing data to find ways to improve or succeed at an encounter very satisfying. We started timing our farming runs to make them interesting. I am not naive enough to not understand that some bad behaviors emerge from meters, I feel the benefits outweigh the negatives. I like the truth.

Almost no one is going to like what I am about to say. I am going to say it in such way as people will say..."That right there, that attitude is exactly why we don't want them" I don't care. A very small minority of people, really, really suck, they don't care that they suck, they don't care that their groups wipe over and over, they don't try to improve, they pay and they can play however they like, they expect you to carry them, they expect you not to complain about it, and they point you out as the bad guy if you do complain, and the last thing they want is for proof of the magnitude of their suck to be made public. It's Ok that you know they suck, but they can tell themselves they don't, and they believe it, meters make them have to face their suck over and over. Is what it is.